This is a great question and also one that’s tough to answer because it changes from person to person. I would say that if someone you love is in recovery understand that they’ve already acknowledged a lot of their faults and are trying very hard to fix them. I also think that the best strategy for helping them on their path a lot of the time is respectful, warm observance — if it seems like they’re struggling let them know you’ll be there if they need advice or a sympathetic ear, but try not to make demands of them or strongarm them into getting back on track. And if you know someone who’s in the middle of their addiction and want to know how to help them, keep in mind that addicts can have trouble reaching out, but it shouldn’t be your job to make them — just let them know you’ll be there for them if that’s what they decide to do.